Brewing Stronger Family Bonds Across Cultures

Family Togetherness

In the rush of daily life, how much time do you truly spend with your family?

As children, we were always with our families, but as adults, that time becomes much less. When I look back on the past year, I realize just how little time I have spent with them. Recently, I had a chance to reflect on the meaning of family through my relationship with my Indian husband and in-laws.

The Importance of Family in Indian Culture

No matter how busy they are, my in-laws always make time for small but meaningful interactions—whether through messages or calls—because they know they cannot meet often. Their warmth makes me feel as if they are right next to me, even when we are far apart.

They also treat me like their own daughter and consider my Japanese family as part of theirs. When they visited Japan recently, they planned a surprise birthday celebration for my father. Seeing him, usually so reserved, smiling shyly but happily, surrounded by family, was a touching moment. Watching him pose playfully for photos—something he would never usually do—made me realize how precious these moments are.

The Value of Time with Family

This experience taught me that beyond messages or gifts, it is the time spent together that creates irreplaceable memories. I realized how often I had let my busy life take priority over family time.

But I also learned that family time is not about how long we spend together—it is about how deeply we connect in those moments. Even short, heartfelt interactions can leave lasting impressions and strengthen our bonds.

Strengthening My Own Family Bonds

Being with my Indian family made me rethink my relationships with my Japanese family. I started making small changes—sending casual messages, calling more often, and arranging family meals. Over time, I noticed a difference.

My father, who rarely sent messages before, now shares photos of our family dog in our group chat. My husband and I spend more time with my Japanese relatives, and they visit us more often. I also spend more time with my siblings, gradually bridging the emotional gap between us.

Through the warmth of my Indian family, my Japanese family relationships have also grown stronger. My mother, who was once shy about expressing her feelings, now says, "I love you!"—words that fill my heart with joy. Regular phone calls have become part of our routine, and we now make more effort to visit and exchange small gifts, bringing us even closer.

Cherish Every Moment

Even the smallest steps can bring warmth and connection. I hope you too, create many heartwarming moments with your loved ones!

—Fumika Kubo, Eucalyptus Japanese Teacher